I couldn't wait to do this video, solely for the purpose of people who just don't know how to keep their mouth shut when it comes to your relationships.
I know for me, I am super sensitive when it comes to sharing my relationship with anyone, including my mom who normally has negative feedback when I'm interested in someone. Most times she tends to clap back, saying things such as, "he's not interested in you", as if there's something wrong with me.
She won't say that out loud but I know she thinks it.
As for friends, we all like to share about someone we have strong feelings for, but not always will your friends agree with a situation currently happening and sometimes they can be insensitive but trying to come off as if they are empowering you.
This isn't always the case. No matter what your situation is, with the exception of abuse (of any kind), it doesn't give your friends the right to make fun of your person or make disparaging comments, especially when they don't know them.
There are also the friends you may have where they are hard up about who they are and rarely make mistakes in their lives, but meanwhile, you sit back and watch them making poor choices in finding a partner or making choices because someone else did it so maybe it will work out for them and it really doesn't ever.
While I don't have a solid advice for that, I can only say, it depends on the level of friendship you have with them. It can definitely be rather messy, if you're also stuck or have become the "chosen one", to have to listen to the insanity day after day, if that is the case.
Either way, where do you stand on, when your friends give advice and it’s a piece of advice they would do but it’s not a choice you would make for yourself.
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